Eric Fromm: Their is hardly any activity, any enterprise , which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectation and yet's which fails so regularly as love(1956)
Romance involves the willingness to take risks, however fear keeps a person defensive. which prevents emotional openess. to deeper more fulfilling relationships
When two people create a love bond they also bond thier energy bodies intent alone is enough to create this.
Their are three primary love connection known as 'styles'
The first of which is known in the field as Eros- that begins with physical attraction
Secondly Storage loving affection that grows over time
Last by no means least Ludus[Game] no ideal type beloved in mind the develpment of one partnership is a causes panick attacks
All thee types in their various forms still however create energy bonds irrespective of physical interaction, the strengh of bonds lies only in that the longer term - will be stronger or at the level of intensity of emotion/attraction.
A serious romantic relationship can grow forever, but if the growth stops and cannot be revived the relationship should end, before the growth potential of either partner diminishes and any value derived, obtained from the relationship; should be maintained as 'pass growth'.
So regardless of when the two separate , the individaul energy bodies will be weak and unprotected ie at the place where the interaction of meridian/chakra points usually meet, this even more so when the individual is energy feeling of person' /sensitive individual . Hence the importance of energy clearing in conjunction with the grieving process is just as important in the disconnection process. I read somewhere to clear one some self totally takes a nine month gestation process, i guess that the time it takes rebuild a healthy aura that longer function as part of co-operatve unit
The initial grieving process , should not be over looked/ dis-regarded, tis the bodies way of 'clearing out' to allow for change
Remember to breathe through your emotion/ grief via mouth for 30-40 min, for it is when you are on your own, you have no choice but to face the pain, the breathing technique mention is a 'Saturi method' which helps the cells to release reppressed emotional energy additional inner focus upon on all /individual chakras can hasten energy release process.
At this time the emotion of grief felt most accutely in sense of surprise/shock, confusement and the inevitable why??!
the energy when allowed to 'flow freely' is like a bitter sweet elixer that has the healing quality to mend hearts
The process is experianced at two levels :
The immediate feelings that bubble up at temperary or permanant breakup/disconnecction.
The second set brings forth deeper memories and echoes of pass separation, and than back to current event.
with the possibilty; that once again not dwelling deeper to avoid pain, hence preventing healing from a re-occuring pattern. on the other hand much mulling over, but no positive coarse taken to holistaically change /heal pattern
If one can be mindful in this constant of grieving, if one can be mindful enough in this difficult period, to notice the tide rise and fall of mixture of emotions in its greater or lesser density, with out feeling guilt or recrimination. A moment of relative freedom can be experianced from the numbness or pain
In truth you are grieving for apart of you that was 'not to be' or died 'before its time'.
loss and grief are our most powerful teachers, in falling in love with life again,
with ever more intensity and passion
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